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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Aug 20, 2010 06:55

I recently ended a relationship with someone who claimed they loved me.

What he really meant was that he loved me in private, No he wasn't married.  He just didn't want people (or should I say Family) to know that he was seeing a Large woman.

After our relationship had progressed I introduced him to my family.  Silly me, I was expecting that eventually I would meet his Sister and daughters.  There was always a reason - "Oh you will when there is an occassion/event"  My sister just wanted to check out who I was dating so she invited us over for dinner, there's an occasion.

We had a different relationship than most he was my submissive as well.  Some might say that is why he didn't have me meet his family.  If that were the case then our relationship lacked total trust.  He trusted me with his mind and his body, what could be more intimate than that?

So for the guys out there that are into Large women, be honest! Okay let me rephrase that, for the guys that aren't married and into a BBW, be honest.

I am just looking for someone that cares about me regardless of who knows.

 

 

 

 



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 01, 2011 20:10

I want to thank everyone for their supportive comments. Hugs!!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Aug 22, 2010 14:36

I am sorry that you went through that, but at least it taught you to look for those kinds of signs with the next one. My guess is that not only is this man insecure about being with a loving big beautiful woman, he was also insecure about his sexual proclivities too. His loss. Take care.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Aug 22, 2010 10:19

A sad comment on society. I refuse to be ignored or ashamed of who I am, and so should you. Walking papers were definitely in order!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Aug 21, 2010 19:42

I agree with hollataatyagir, If a man does not have pride in you and want to show the world what a true woman you are . Give him his walking papers. I feel that society has a Incorrect veiw of what a woman should look like . I can think of three ladies ,by todays standards would be considered fat. Maralin Monroe, Rita Haworth, Maye West ,and Betty Grable are four Ladies that pop in to my mind right off the bat.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Aug 21, 2010 07:19

I have been there. I know exactly how you feel. Men like this are what I call hiding in the "PHAT Closet". If you like someone in private why not take them in public and let them meet anyone who is significant in your life. You are a wonderful person who deserves only the best. If a man is not willing to treat you like the queen you are give buddy his walking papers. The real man will come into your life if you do not let little boys like this have a seat in your life they do not deserve. I said boy because only children worry so intently about what others think about them and who they love. So keep that space open for a real man who is in search of his queen.


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