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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 14, 2006 11:22

I really want to know this answer. Are there any men on this site who are not looking for casual sexual relationships, married but looking, men looking for bi women. I have tried a few bbw dating sites and it appears to be that type of thing alot (I didnt say all :)) Its really hard to find a man who genuinely enjoys a bigger woman and not just because its easier to get her in bed but because she is a attractive woman who has alot going for her outside of the bedroom. Encourage a sister here I still want to believe... This is blog land so I am blogging... Is it me or do I live in a pretend world here when messaging someone why is it that what you like to do in bed? What do you like for a man to do to you? Or the size of someone gentials come up... How about where do you see yourself in a few years. Do you have any goals.. would you like to change the world... What do ya'll think?

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Dec 21, 2013 15:39

You know, the best way to find a neddle, is to not look in a haystack, but to walk barefoot in a sewing factory. You get me? 

There are certain type of people that only in certain places and are NOT in other types of places because they are not comfortable.

Think about it and you will understand what I am saying.



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Dec 21, 2013 15:32

This blog topic hits home for me. I am new to this site and I was about to say the same thing about Christian women, haha.

What I am finding that in general, men or women, will slap a label on them but when you shake the box, there is nothing spiritually in there. You can only fake but so far. 

If a person is a Christian, for real, he/she will have something to say about Jesus, God, religion, church, morals, beliefs, something. 

If you strike up a conversation about a Bible subject and they start to stumble at it, not follow along, no interest in talking/chatting/emailing about their beliefs, that shows you what they are all about.

Quiz them at the beginning. Tell them off the bat that you are not about messing around. Hold fast to your morals and what you believe in. You will be surprised how easy you can filter out the junk.

 

 



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jan 03, 2007 11:13

I am trying to remember that! I havent had a date in a few years I wonder whats wrong with me lol


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 27, 2006 16:22

There are some of us good guys out there, just seems to be alot of crap to get to us though


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 27, 2006 06:24

I am believing God for real!!! I know that there are some good men out there and I dont believe in bashing people... I know that there are some men out there who knows how to intelligently talk to a lady!!! I hope everyone had a Merry CHRISTmas


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 24, 2006 19:38

BBWDiva, I'm incline to agree with you. Where are the thinking, sincere, thoughtful men? It's like finding a needle in a haystack. Sadly enough I believe this method of communication has damaged individuals to the point that they are unaware of how to communicate in a respectful meaningful manner. So keep praying for that ram in the bush! God must have him on hold somewhere...lol


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 21, 2006 07:39

Thanks ladies for all of the encouraging comments!! I am trying to find new ways to meet people so I am new to the whole online meeting people and my patience is low :) I hope all of you ladies find what you are looking for too!!


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 20, 2006 12:03

Diva4Christ, Welcome to the blogs here. It's always nice to see a new face! I don't see any big difference in the way men act here or towards BBW's in general, than they did when I was "normal" size before I quit smoking and gained weight. There will always be some men who think women are easy. Sad to say, but when I was married almost every one of my spouses male coworkers tried hitting on me at one time or another when he was out of town. There are actually some men here and elsewhere who are not just looking for a casual sexual relationship. Don't jump ship yet, but wait patiently! Best of luck to you!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 19, 2006 17:03

Perhaps a few BBWs may have given those men that impression but desperation isn't just confined to BBWs it comes in all shapes and sizes and in both sexes. What about women who go from one relationship to another because they don't want to be on their own they settle for anyone instead of being alone. Don't focus on the Walking Talking Peckers on this site. Just be yourself and any decent man will spot a decent woman. As usual when you don't look something turns up!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 19, 2006 15:26

BBWDiva, don't let those small minded men discourage you. Just ignore them and keep posting. Speak your mind and start or join in the converations. By the way, welcome to LargeFriends!!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 19, 2006 06:18

I wonder as bbw's have we put ourselves out there like that? I do believe that there are some good guys out there and I am not a men basher but this online dating or meeting people is no different then meeting other men it just seems to me that some men dont respect bbws for just being nice women but something thats easier to get with.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 19, 2006 05:56

I'm not Christian, I'm Sikh. I do not believe that all guys come on here thinking that BBWs are easier than stick thin women. There are men like that on all sorts of other dating sites regardless of your size. I've been a member of two other regular dating sites and I had a great relationship with one guy I met from one of them. There were just as many guys who wanted to get freaky with you on those "regular dating" sites than any where else. I think they think that because we are advertising ourselves for relationships that we must be desperate. I've said it before on another blog but the internet is just another method for a guy to look for sex. Just like going to a bar and looking for a one night stand.


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