Hey, I hardly see any of the ones who used to be on here. Looks like quite a few left LF :(! I haven't posted on here for a long time. Hello to everyone! Just adding my two cents after such a long time. Having confidence in yourself is the one thing I've learned in the last 3 years that is so important. Everyone hears this I know, lol. But it really is true that to find and keep a relationship going you must know you are worth being treated with respect and sincerity. If you don't have confidence in yourself, you will accept much less than you deserve, you won't be positive, and you won't be as successful in getting and keeping a good relationship. It helps to write down in a private journal the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of who you are. Write all the things about yourself, be honest, lol. See what things you would like to improve, and work on them. Note the good things about yourself. Set goals for yourself and work on one at a time. Keep in mind you are truely unique. There is no one else in the world like you, we each are unique and cannot be replaced. I hope everyone here finds that your dreams for happiness comes true. Good Luck!