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PanamaCityGent
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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Mar 09, 2007 11:05

We all have our preferences in the physical characteristics we prefer in a man/woman. For a man to say he prefers a woman Buxom is simply stating that preference, not berating those who are less well endowed. Some of the women here prefer men 5' 10" or taller, does that make the man who is 5' 7" less of a man due to the fact he is shorter than the other man, no, just means the person searching was a bit more detailed in their wants and desires than some. I personally prefer a woman who is well proportioned and that has a good personality. Nothing wrong with being specific when thinking of someone I would like to spend alot of time with.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Mar 09, 2007 09:18

Well this is my first time on here...and like every other person on here this is a ego boost.. Cause me my self i'm a sexy , big and beautiful woman...i did at one point had low self esteem but hell with that now...i wake up every morning and i thank the lord that i'm alive, and i love my self cause if i don't love myself who will....hopefully someone soon tho' lol but i can say one thing tho' i've never had a problem gettin a man so also thank god for that...Oh and another thing Amuse you are damn hilirous


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 05, 2007 07:09

Anneken - I meant to respond to you before, but I don't get around to my own blogs as often as I should. lol Isn't it amazing that once you decide to get out of bed in the morning and have a great day being beautiful, you can actually have a great day - being beautiful? lol I am so happy to hear that you are succeeding in your self esteem struggle.. indeed a struggle we all wrestle everyday.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Feb 04, 2007 12:47

I know I'm quite late to this blog, but since finding it 2 days ago, it has been the biggest ego boost/shot in the arm I've had in a long time! AmuseMe, you crack me up, girl, and everybody else's postings are great, too. I've been a BBW/SSBBW all my life, and despite the usual teenage angst about body image & whatnot, I am comfortable with who I am. I'm in the process of preparing for bariatric surgery for health reasons, but one of the fears I have had to deal with is the fact that I don't want to become less memorable because I'm not as big as I am now. I'm still looking for a man who can appreciate me & all my jiggliness, but this blog has really helped reassure me that he must be out there somewhere. I never realized so many guys were so attracted to us fat chicks! I need to tell my co-worker about some of you guys because she's nowhere NEAR as big as I am, but her jerk boyfriend is giving her all kinds of crap about "being fat", which is really depressing her & making me sad & angry on her behalf. She needs to know that not every guy in the world is obsessed with skinny, emaciated stick figures. Thanks for the great blog & for giving me some fantastic stuff to remember & go back to my friend with. You all ROCK!!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Feb 02, 2007 06:41

LatinDancer - I am constantly debating whether or not I like your style. You will say something ostentatious one moment and a month later come back and say something completely ... oh, what word am I looking for? ... altruistic? Yes, that will do. Do you switch it up to keep us guessing? Keep us interested? lol Well, I definately like your style this morning. Thanks for the upfit! :-)


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Feb 01, 2007 10:59

I find that BBWs are real We all have faults and weight is an easy fault to catch with the blind eye As such BBWs get judged by this fault in everyday life and either develop a wonderful sense of self that makes them a confident and powerful person (very sexy) or sadly a worry wort that hides her body I love confident sexy women who are natural. If they weigh 200lbs or 280lbs the number really isnt the issue....its the person personality and how they carry themselves I see women like I see cars. My race car is fast, can take turns like no ones business and makes me break a sweat --- but the amount of maintenance, time, money you have to exert for a few fleeting moments of a race are no match for a sexy road going car that is comfortable, practical and low maintenance The BBWs I have dated have been low maintenance and level headed. The random "race cars" I dated in my youth taught me a great deal about life and how long a journey it is If your in it for the long haul why not find a comfortable, reliable, practical low maintenance road car to get you there with a smile --- I am no race car so hopefully a BBW will see me as sexy road going transportation Hopefully these BBWs here can understand that men have faults too, just because we are slender/thinner than our BBWs doesnt mean we feel perfect...if men are willing to see past your faults than I think they should too The poor sister who wont let her husband see her naked is torturing that poor guy --- I can only imagine how he feels --- how can there be intimacy when you cant even look into her eyes in bed? Men are not idiots, we know what we want and have decided that your attractive already FAULTS INCLUDED I know for a fact that men who like BBWs are more mature mentally because it takes alot of strength to be willing to take the abuse we go through for loving BBWs....but the reward of finding a real woman is worth all the crap we have to put up with Love yourself because we love you just the way you are


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jan 31, 2007 05:33

i agree with saber. i think that a bbw's personality is just better than any skinny girl any day. and that to me makes them all the more prettier


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 30, 2007 06:32

I hope that anyone who reads this blog takes the time to read every single post in it. You guys are awesome and I delighted in reading every response. Ladies! Don't we just love hearing these things? By your posts I can tell that you do ??. Fella's - WINK as Lazy would say "if you want it" at all these beautiful women who are soft, kind, considerate, passionate, down-to-earth and eager to please a man who is likewise. BBW seeks?K everything, asks for little in return: Affectionate, responsible, adult male companion to cuddle and laugh away lonely nights with. P.S. Will travel. I know this topic is repeated throughout the threads, in blogland and in the forums, but it is a timeless question - if only for the fact that we as women want to know that you find us attractive and beautiful with or without our extra cushion. I for one will never regret being a big girl. Even though I have found myself a time or two shunned in some circles of society, ridiculed at a work place and even laughed at in the school yard, I am who I am because of this something extra. I am a loving, caring, passionate woman who takes nothing for granted, who longs to care for and be cared for in return. I am no superimposing bimbo who blows blokes in bar bathrooms. I am no superficial waif who cares about nothing but herself and her own success and how far up the corporate ladder she's got to spread her legs to get a career she didn't earn. I am the loyal, hardworking big girl in the glass walled office who earned her respected reputation by being witty, intriguing and comical. For these reasons, and infinite more, I am beautiful (though I do love being told I am hotter than a biscuit! <3). Each one of us big girls here (even you big girls at heart), have your own stories to tell - each one unique - but the development remains the same: We are who we are, and eventually, if we are good little boys and girls, we will be gifted with our hearts desires. Thank you to everyone who posted on this particular blog. Yes, it??s redundant, but because it is an oh so important subject.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 29, 2007 14:39

I have always liked FLUFFY women. I have had normal(skinny) women tell me I was sick. Hey! I know what fits me. I just don't find skinny women attractive or sexy. Now let's talk about a women who is about 5'10" and 225-300 lbs. She's sexy as all get-out. I don't know why I like em but I like em!!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 29, 2007 14:31

amuse me you are a breath of fresh air ihave always hated my own body and am very self concious of being naked in front of sa man but lately have started thinking very differently, have started wearing nice clothes and going out and my newfound confidence must be showing cos i have never had so much male attention. i think if you cant love yourself and youre body how can u expect any man to. anneken xx


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jan 28, 2007 07:03

Amuse, thanx for getting yet another great Blog going. First of all, let me say that I truly enjoy reading most everything that you write. You are so open about things and spice it up with your sense of humor. Thanx. So far as this question you have thrown out. WOW!! I have never known the real thoughts of some of the male folks out there so far as the BBW. A really big and sincere THANX to the fellers who did respond to this.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 26, 2007 17:13

im very attracted to a sexy bbw..... because most of them have personality, they really pay attention to you, arent just focused on themselves, are fun, look great, are very curvy, and are more to love. the greatest thing in my life is being with a bbw, when i give a massage to one, its very sensual to me, my hands on every curve, ect. skinnywomen are overrated, and most are so focused on how they look, they just turn me off. i have no interest in them. i love my thick, sexy ladies.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jan 07, 2007 03:35

Listening to the comments just made me feel sexy and acceptable. It's totally awesome and wonderful to hear the inner thoughts of men and woman on BBW's body images. Another thought is that I'm much more than a body. This body is the shell for a wonderful gift, my heart,my mind and my soul. These are essential gifts to tap into. The results are unlimited possibilities.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 04, 2007 11:20

I can't exactly pindown a real reason, but I think it has something to do with the fact that something seems more geniune about a bbw In my experience, I've always had a better relaitonship with a bbw and why mess with past success :P I think it has alot to do with the ones that carry themselves with an extreme amount of confidence that really attracts me to them. Also, something about a bigger girl is just kinda hot :)


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 04, 2007 00:12

I love being with larger women, I must admit though, they must be buxom, the larger the better. I've always been attracted to bbw's, and also the inner beauty they exude, I realize not all women are that way, but, you can tell sort of quickly if there is chemistry or not. I do not look at thin women, only as the other gender, I'm always looking at bbw's though. And I guess I can't tell you why deep inside of me bbw's turn me on so much. But, I don't care, I like it and will never change. Dave from San Francisco


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Nov 16, 2006 19:55

For those women wondering if their are men out there who truly are attracted to big women on a physical basis, the answer is YES!!! I am a hound, and I find big women to be the hottest women around. I love thick women for their curves and shape. To be blunt a naked big woman burns me up, I can't think straight. And I have been this way since I was born. Can't explain it, it's just my preference. All through grade school while all the other guys were into the same 3 skinny girls, I was secretly checking out the cute chubby chicks. Too bad I wouldn't do anything about it----peer pressure sucks, I missed out on so much fun. Take your average guy who can't think straight when he is around a swimsuit model type of girl. I get that same way around a cute thick girl. I can't concentrate on anything. I could describe what it is that turns me on, but I am not sure this is the place to do so and I don't want to offend anyone. Back to PEER PRESSURE. I personally think there are millions of closet guys out there who feel the same way I do but won't admit it(although lots have admitted it to me). Just about every guy I have ever had talks with about their sexual history has been with a big woman and enjoyed it. And I am talking about some really good looking guys. It's almost like closet gay guys. Now I am not complaining because I reep the benefits of having literally no competition. But I bet you women wished people would be more open and honest. I think all it would take is if a bunch of celebrity men started dating big women things would change. It's just not as acceptable as it should be. On the sexual side from a guy that only dated thin women til he was about 25. Everytime I was in bed with a thin woman at some point I was fantasizing about a thick woman. to sum up: I don't know why I am wired like this, to explain that would be like explaining WHY I think pizza or ice cream tastes good. It just does. And big women just are: smokin' hot, sexy, amazing, beautiful, gorgeous, and so soft. It's gettin' hot in here, I'd better stop.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Nov 16, 2006 17:57

This was such an interesting thread to read. I'm a little bit like your sister AmuseMe. I was emotionally abused at the hands of my father when I was about 12 and it screwed me up ever since. I grew up thinking "If my own father doesn't think i'm beautiful - who will???" Luckily for me, my man is very patient and loves me anyway! I can be naked in front of him now, but I still have days when I lock the bathroom door. I agree with the posted who expressed her disbelief at men who claim to preffer BBW's. I too find this hard to believe sometimes. There are times when I look at my reflection in the mirror and cannot see anything attractive at all. I can't see my pubic hair, unless I ungracefully lift my buldge out of the way. Toes??? I have TOES??????? Haven't seen them in about 8 years LOL Sadly my boobs are slow on the BBW upkeep, and are smaller than the rest of me. Makes me look odd and out of proportion. Somedays I do feel sexy, I feel like a true Earth Goddess, a natural mother, more intouch with the devine female. Then I catch a sneer from some princess on the beach in her string bikini and it sends all that confidence flying out the window. BAH! I wish my self worth didn't depend so much on people I dont know! -Cors


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 12, 2006 23:42

Hi to all - I have just got on and read this blog and let me tell you - it is devine!!! I am a SSBBW and in Australia where I hale from - not a lot of men are into BBW let alone SSBBW!!! it is inspiring reading what you guys have written. Thankyou from This SSBBW from Oz :)))


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 12, 2006 20:23

Big - I had that song in mind when I wrote that! lol.. I am no model, but I am damn sure a brickhouse! ;) Thanks for the smile! - *smooch* Blue - tell me about it. I've got bluejeans that weight 2 pounds! Aire - You are the puzzle. Men like you who look at a roll and think "mmmnn.. like to get my hands all over that".. I know you probably can not "articulate" the reasons you are compelled to the rotund sexiness of a BBW, but I have been trying to puzzle it out and understand. Suppose the answer is hidden away with the secret location of 5 billion right foot sox. ;)


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 12, 2006 17:41

I am attracted to all what I think of as pretty women. It's just that the bigger one's I find more alluring. The wiring in my head must be connected diffrent is all. For some reason a nice belly gets my attention! I don't know why! I love breasts and butts as much as the next guy a pretty smile and steamy eyes are attractive. But, I find that if their on a plump BBW they seem more compelling.


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