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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 15, 2007 20:07

First off.. Amuse, the pictures of you and your children are awesome and tasteful and I think that you have every right to share them with whom ever you choose. I have seen at least 20 pictures of men posing with their children in their profiles on this website.So I dont see what the big deal is. Second....The Angry wife and dt* whatever his call sign is..Now this whole thing blew me away, because the way I read it and please correct me if I am wrong, but this guy lives in England with his wife, and you (terrible home wrecker that you are :)LOL, just kidding of course) have exchanged maybe 3 or 4 e-mails. You havent talked on the phone or god forbid even seen each other face to face which of course would have to involve a transatlantic flight to have a romantic tryst let alone gotten jiggy with it right? She totally over- reacted and took it out on you! She really needs to get her priorities straight! As for dtr74x he has earned his place in the players blog, because he did not disclose that he was married. If you are married and lie about it you are a Player! ****CHICK LAW***** Bit*hes....-RR-


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 15, 2007 12:32

Hey, thanks so much for your support youse guyse. I must say though that I took the pictures down because I really felt more personally violated and felt really irresponsible after reading *her* letter and even some of the replies to this blog. I am reconsidering my motive for this. It took a really level headed friend to show me that, while there are pedophiles out there hunting the internet for children, they would be hard pressed to get to mine through ME. I did not fall off the turnip truck yesterday, nor am I as naive as I once was long ago. I think that I am a pretty good judge of character and before my children EVER meet anyone I am seriously being courted by, I would know enough about this person to trust them with my life, because my children ARE my life. I have been their sole provider and protector since their conception and I was smart and brave enough to leave their abusive father behind. How is meeting anyone on here any different than meeting someone in a supermarket or through friends that you work with, etc.? I would know less about someone that walked up to me at a park and started flirting than I would about someone indicating interest on this web site. It all boils down to using the brain the creator gave us and having some common sense. I've got both. Unless I want to give up the dating scene til they are grown and out of the house, there are chances that I will have to take and trust in the fact that I am fairly capable of deciphering a person's intentions. BUT, because of the even DISTANLTY REMOTE EVEN INFINITESIMAL possibility that I would fall in love with a pedophile from this site, I will not put them back up. Another someone special to me pointed out that, while I want to stress the possibility that whoever may be interested would be coming into a family and have three of us to love, that if he read my profile and actually paid attention, he would understand this without the pictures. I appreciate everyone's input on this subject, I really do. I just don't want anyone to be under the impression that I am some fop-head that would ever disregard my children?s safety. There are men all over this site with pictures of their children - so because they are men does that mean that it is okay - that they are safer somehow - because they are better protectors? Better judges of character? I don't think so (and please don?t bother to argue the statistics of men vs. women pedophilia ratio, men are not the only chemically/mentally imbalanced creatures lurking and awaiting opportunities to victimize AND don?t forget women are a lot of times accomplices to crimes of this nature, supplying the psycho she *loves* with his needs). I would kill and/or die for my children. I really, seriously doubt that their father would do the same - but even if he would do the same, he couldn't do it as effectively as I could. I am a woman whom for centuries the christian faith has deemed an evil creature for just existing... I could do things to someone that threatened my babies that Satan himself doesn?t have the capacity to dream up. Hugs to you Ann, and everyone else that wants to jump in!


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jan 14, 2007 00:45

Lady E I see you have chosen the traditional meaning of slag for your interpretation. In England "slag" is quite a derogatory word when used in conjunction with a female. This is why I was fuming when I read the email sent to Amuseme because she doesn't deserve to be called it. The implication is that the recipient of the word is indeed in somehow loose and devoid of morals and is trashy. That is the politest definition. Its also like the use of the word "slut" these days originally it meant that a lady was messy, and didn't look after herself, but it is often used in the contemporary as also a derogatory term along the lines of the modern English usage of "slag".


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 13, 2007 17:16

Lol* Well that was totally uncall for. But something going on if her man has to sneak around on the internet. She must not be taking care of business or either her husband just a nympho. She didn't have to attack u like that!! Slag-waste left over after the re-sorting of coal. Hmmm ok!! Did she mean hag lol!! Please No sharp objects around the manwife!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 13, 2007 15:42

AmuseMe, Wow, how crazy! What the woman did...the extreme she went to...was uncalled for. If she had a problem, she should have addressed her husband. He's the one she's really upset at, but just doesn't have the guts to address him. As for the pic of the kids, I would never have thought there was anything wrong with that. You're showing that you're a package deal. What is wrong with that? I've read a few of the replies and saw the comments mentioned about predators out there. I honestly, excuse my naivete, never thought about that. But, I guess it is something that should be thought about carefully. However, it never crossed my mind that there was anything wrong with it. I do see this site as a place to be able to meet some nice people as friend, not just relationships. And by that turn, I feel that's it's ok to put up pics that show different aspects of your life. But, if safety is a concern, than perhaps it's wisest. There are some predators out there, unfortunately. I think your decision not to respond to non-members is wise. Good for you! Hugs, u. You truly didn't deserve that. We all know you have high morals standards that you live by as does most people here in blogland do. You're a good soul. I always enjoy each and every one of your blogs and comments. Don't give her a second thought. HUGS!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 13, 2007 13:55

I certainly feel for you AmuseMe. One time I got a phone call from a wife. That was an interesting conversation.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 13:08

Amuse ...... funny how she rumbled him just after he was pressured to remove the photo of Brit actor Paul Bettany from his profile and add his own, lol. Sorry you had to be on the receiving end of Mrs D's rant but I think you are cool enough to rise above it! as for the question of pictures of children ... it's been discussed at length in the forums on a number of occasions. Sadly this isn't the classy site we would all like to hope it was so I would say it's best to mention your kids but not post pics. You can always send a group pic to someone you are chatting to once you have built up some trust and rapport.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 09:41

Blimey, what a nasty woman...with a mouth like that it really doesn't surprise me that "dtr" is looking elsewhere. I hope she does not speak like that in front of HER kids(if she has any). I feel sorry for you having to open an e-mail like that.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 07:35

I've seen pics of women with their kids on sites before. I'm not a pedophile so it didn't do anything for me, but a pedophile is a predator and will lie his way into your life to get at your little one... I would suggest never put kids pics on any site and don't even put that you have young kids at home on your profile... it's a bad world out there...


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 04:12

Thanks Best ... seems he's quite a WINKER lol!!


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 02:30

Hmmm biigbiird that guy winked at me but i ignored him because of several things in that he didn't meet my clear criteria on my match friend. I just checked his profile and it says that he is divorced. Perhaps if anyone does decide they are interested in Southerngent_uk they invest in a Private Investigator to check his status before getting burnt. I'm sorry you met another toss pot.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 01:19

AmuseMe, I think you were wise taking your pictures of your beautiful children off the site. Although we tend to feel like we are a small community, there are many more folks reading these blogs than who post, just as there are many looking at our profiles. One just can't be too safe these days. Stacey,if a man claims to be single but doesn't want to give you a home number he probably has a wife or girlfriend there.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 12, 2007 01:02

Stacey hun, sadly the biggest caution sign is that they are male. I still live in hope that there are some decent guys on here but it looks less like it every day. I've been around here a while and I really thought my bullsh1t detector was working pretty well but I just got caught out myself. Thought the guy I was chatting to was genuine amd a really decent guy. We chatted, a nice amount of texts, then we arranged to meet (his idea .... but I was happy to go along with it - he's not physically what I consider to be my "type" but we seemed to click so well it wasn't important) Well then all communication stopped without warning; he's blocked my profile, and I know he is still actively looking and chatting to other women. Yes Southerngent_uk ..... women on here are like women worldwide .... we talk!!! No idea if this one is still married or what, and no longer bothered because he's proved himself to be someone quite different to the guy I thought I could be falling for .... just goes to show how few there are out there who we can really trust. Guys clearly don't like their own kind very much or they wouldn't be giving themselves such an awful reputation by behaving like this!!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 18:24

I am new at meeting people online. Is there any caution signs that you pick up on right away that could avoid a situation like this? I am hesitant with men who do not post photos. Any other suggestions?


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 18:08

Amuse Me...Honey that married lady who talked so filthy to you. She needs to hush up picking on the innocent people, ( you) and get her a pack of crazy glue. Wait till pecker head is asleep and glue his thing to his belly. Sure it will be hard to get skin graphs done down there after he yanks it off. But ya know. play with fire, you will get burned. LOL Just joking


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 17:45

Wow, that's pretty intense What a loser for running around on his wife like that? I mean OI! Truthfully about the last thing I expected to see on here....


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 11:23

Here copied and pasted from a PM with dtr74x (1/11/07?19:10) dtr74x: sorry? bestkeptsecret: what for? dtr74x: what bestkeptsecret: nevermind bestkeptsecret: have a good evening dtr74x: ok, whatever u say bestkeptsecret: does your wife know you are on here? dtr74x: why bestkeptsecret: well she wrote a rather horrible email to a girl on here for talking to you dtr74x: and... dtr74x: what has some1 been shouting their mouths off on here already awww bestkeptsecret: well don't you think you should respect your wife and leave the website Strangely enough after my last sentence he signed off... chicken


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 09:21

And I am just going to add to this that from this moment on, if a gentleman comes calling and doesn't have a paid membership here, he is getting NONE of my attention. I have no doubt that his wife found out about this site because she received the first bill from her credit card - because he had JUST joined. I know that doing this will not eliminate all of the undesireables and may even eliminate some honest to goodness good guys out there, but that is a sacrifice I am willing to make. Every little bit helps.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 09:12

Well I have taken them off my profile so at least now I don't feel like I am pimping my children. I do want to thank you guys for giving me your support, though I know that her statements about me and my parenting didn't hold water. It means a lot to me, because they mean a lot to me. AND RED.. these things can be said for you too. I know how you feel, you were attacked unjustly and the only person you feel compassion for his your attacker! This wouldn't have warranted such a reaction from me had she kept my kids and my morals out of it. I wasn't involved with her husband in any way so that doesn't bother me in the least. It was the personal attack on my reasons for posting my girls pictures that got my back up. I understand her anger even though all we (her hubby and I) did was exchange hello's and he had sent me some poetry. I didn't reply to him at that time for several reasons: Partly because I wasn't interested, partly because of the picture he posted and partly because it was a busy time for me with the holidays and year end stuff at work. So I saw him online yesterday and asked him about the picture to give him a chance to explain. That's when she pounced. It's just a shame that a site like this is so misused. I pay membership here because it seemed to me to be the best site for this online get-to-know-you thing for decent folk who are honest and sincere about who they are and what they are all about. Sex isn't being solicited here, with exception of a few profiles. To me this site feels more like a community than a miscellaneous chat experience. I reported the e-mail to LF powers-that-be in an effort to have his account stripped from him, telling them that the letter was indeed from a very angry wife. Their response to me was "sorry, block him." I just don't get it.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 11, 2007 08:43

Wow, I'm really sad that a nice person like you had to receive a message like that! And for her to not only blame you, but blame all single women for the reason why men are on the internet, thats just ridiculous. You did absolutely nothing wrong in this situation. She's probably acting out at you because of how angry she is at herself for not seeing her husband is man-wh*re; but even though she's mad at him, she's so insecure and afraid of losing him that it's just easier to get angry and blame you than him. Its a sad situation. BTW, slag is UK slang for sl*t. As for pictures with your girls, I think its wonderful that you keep them first and foremost in your life, and you're not afraid to say upfront that they mean everything to you. But as some of my cohorts have said, there are some horrible people out there, and while the chances of something bad happening are slim, it probably is better if those pics remain unposted.


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