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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jan 10, 2007 15:30

Remember dtr74x? I got this in my mail today... from his wife. I didn't edit it other than to remove the U from a particular nasty word... > > why dont you f*ck off, you desperate fat slag , this is Daves wife emailing you here, why dont you f*ck off the internet, and go get a real man what you actually meet face to face, maybe men like my prick of a husband wouldnt be able to sneak around their f*cking wifes backs if there wasnt desperate woman like you prowling the f*cking internet, you was his source of entertainment, you even f*cking put kids pictures on your profile, you should have your children taken away from you for just that alone,what kind of f*cking mother are you, I wouldnt put my kids pictures on a profile on ANY site let alone a f*cking dating one, you dirty disgusting slut, now f*ck off and take your UGLY pictures off, slag....................... whore > > Well, needless to say we had a confrontation in a PM. She was nasty and I really can't blame her for it. Though I did tell her on several occasions that she was blaming the wrong person and that she needed to take this sh*t up with her husband. Well, anyways. This is not really bothering me because I wasn't really interested anyways.. but what IS bothering me is what she said about me posting pictures of my girls on here. I mean, this isn't adultsexfinder or anything, right? This is supposed to be a friendly community with friends, right? You know, I never thought if it as anything other than letting people know who I am. My girls are a part of me and we are a package. Does anyone else think that my putting classy, dignified pictures of my children on here is despicable or inappropriate?


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Dec 28, 2007 21:01

Hi Amuse I think it is wonderful to put family pictures and pictures of your girls - it gives a well rounded picture of who you are and tells people that you are a proud mom. I have pictures of my children on my profile as well - even though it is only open to those in my favourites at the moment. This lady is sadly off base, and obviously speaking out of her own hurt and disillusionment.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Dec 28, 2007 13:00

I find it ironic that it is always the other person's fault and never the spouse. If the spouse is looking for more, then obviously something is lacking in their relationship.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Nov 14, 2007 22:44

I will admit I didnt read all the other replys to this so this may have been said 46 times already. You are right this is not an adult site it is a place for normal people to meet and get to know each other. There is nothing wrong with you posting these pics and you are also right that she is cussing the wrong person here. much luck in your search---Tom


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Oct 28, 2007 22:26

Apparently, this woman has nothing better to do with her valuable time than to chase after the victims of her adulterous, sleazy, cheating husband. It's one thing when a husband (and I use that term loosely, here) actually cheats on his wife, and has a "relationship" with a woman. Even more so when the woman knows about the man's marital status. Now THAT is what a real "other woman" is. This woman, however, is lashing out at her husbands "fantasy"! Amuse me didn't even have a relationship with this creep, and his derranged wife is chasing down his "dream date." What a moron! Now is the time for her to lay down the law and force him to "man up" (as Amuse me once put it...). MAKE him go to therapy. MAKE him devote time to family. MAKE him pay for his attempts at cheating (who knows--maybe he REALLY did cheat?). And if she finally opens her eyes and sees what an indiscriminate invertebrate he really is, then she obviously has the evidence to get *ALIMONY* for a long, long, time! :)


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 19, 2007 12:14

Hello Amuseme You're a sweetie and you should just let the comments that this hurt and bitter woman wrote flow right over you! It's understandable that she was hurt but I believe that she lashed out at the wrong person! I truly honor a woman that has children and is raising them with pride, love, joy and care. You are proud of your girls and if you chose to have pictures of them on your page well all the more power to you!! Don't let anyone dictate in your actions, and with your new tattoo I feel that you don't! You are a strong, beautiful woman and I sure hope that ignorant people such as this woman don't tarn your shine!! Take care girl!! Rosy


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 19, 2007 09:49

I think the 'attacking' woman needs to step back and take a look in the mirror. If her relationship is in trouble, she should be addressing the symptoms, maybe seeking therapy if she wants to save her marriage. Usually when the man strays, he is looking for something lacking in his present situation. I say usually, but not always, as each case is as different as the personalities involved. She evidently didn't count to 10 before blowing up! I'm sure she has had time to look at this from both sides and regrets attacking you. Lesson learned! My exhusband was running around with 9 women at one time, and one of these women called me because her conscience was eating her up. I got mad-got over it-and then threw him out so the other women could fight over him! That was 21 years ago and he's on wife #4 and has already picked out #5 (from the rumor-mill). So life goes on.....


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 19, 2007 07:38

I agree the woman was blaming the wrong person. As a divorced individual I can understand her frustration. Surely the husband didn't put he was married on his profile. As for the pictures of the kids. I agree with the angry person that you shouldn't put up the pictures of the kids for safety sake. There are to many sex offenders out there. Best of luck to you. Lou


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 12, 2007 20:22

who the f*ck wants a married man. there are plenty of single one out there. why isn't she blaming the husband for joining single sites to find women? my 1st rule if he's married who the hell needs em. i have meet some really nice single men offline.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 05, 2007 09:15

I'm one of the most honest people I know and still - when I had kids, I said I didn't and I stuck to that until I'd had at least three dates with the guy. Pedophiles cruise these sites looking for trusting girls with kids. I don't think for a second that you meant to advertise your kids to pedophiles. But I'll bet dollars to donuts you've been contacted by guys who've touched themselves while looking at innocent pics of your kids. Sure there'll be a guy or two along the way who is upset if you withhold the truth for a bit, but what's that compared to protecting your kids from pervs who date women to get to their kids? Parent jobs in order of priority: 1. Do everything you can to keep them alive. 2. Do everything you can to keep them from being sexually abused. Everything else comes after those two jobs. We all say we'd kill someone if they molested one of our kids. But an ounce of prevention is worth a prison sentence's worth of cure.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Feb 01, 2007 09:19

I always find it interesting, that women always get angry at other women for their husband's philandering. They never confront their husbands or significant others. Many times, some women don't realize they've gone out on a date with a married man, or with someone who's attached. In any event, perhaps the wife should question why her husband is trolling the internet looking for women, rather than blaming you for her husband's indiscretion(s). And in answer to your question... I mean, one must be leery when posting their children's pics, but like you said... it's not a lewd dating website, and they're part of the package. ;-)


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 30, 2007 08:22

I have great respect for Amuseme, who had the courage to publicize that abusive email. Wifey should really take it up with hubby. After all he made the decision to go on the Internet and register with such sites. What I want to do is give you all a warning about putting your children on the Internet. I am a computer programmer. Take it from me, it is quite easy for the more dishonest person to used the photos of your children and morf/super-impose then on any object, person or thing. It can cause some severe problems. Example: As a joke I once swap heads of my mother-in-law and a donkey she was riding whilst o holidays in Spain and (Intended as a little joke amonst my family) About six week later a copy of it was push thru her letter box with instructions on how to view it on the Internet. For five years she refused to speak to me only doing so again when my wife died. I deserved that, but thing what would happen if the head of your innocent 14yr son/daughter suddenly appeared on the Internet in a very compromising situation. You would have to live with the problems it could so easily have been avoided.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 23, 2007 17:58

"imagine having to be married to a man like that!!!" quoted by lovelylassy. Imagine having such poor self esteem that a woman would feel the need to FIGHT FOR a man like that!! As for posting pics of children here, someone told me that it is not a good idea to post pics of children. Someone could use the picture that you so innocently posted and change it into something unseemly. Someone could take the image of one child's face and superimpose it on the body of another child who was nude or posed in an "adult" manner. IF this superimposed pic was ever seen by someone that your child knows, it would cause much embarrassment for your child. And if the superimposed pic got into the hands of someone who wanted to cause you some distress, they could take the pic to the authorities which would cause all kinds of problems. I know that it sounds far fetched. I really did not believe it when it was told to me, but sometimes it is wise to use extra caution...even when it sounds crazy.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 22, 2007 02:38

His profile has been hidden now, Hurrah! And to all you married men on this website preying on all of us lovely genuine sincere women, watch out because we will name and shame you.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 20, 2007 08:52

Amuse sorry someone sent you that awful email. That woman is confused. Her husband is the one she needs to be talking to. Don't let her make you feel bad. From what I can tell you are a great lady. LadyTexan


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 20, 2007 07:57

All I can say is wow. I hope that u r doing ok and please don't let this bother u, and if you ever need to chat we are all on here for you.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jan 19, 2007 20:00

slag...now that's a new one to add to my vocabulary! I've seen the pics of you and your kids and I saw a happy unit...I think that some lucky guy would love to buy into that scene....a couple of yearsafter my wife passed the best babe magnet of a pic I had was me and my then 9 yr old daughter killing each other in the back yard with our water pistols and you should be the last person she should vent on if she took the time to read any of your blogs...she should have used her venting time snipping hubby's gonads a tad shorter


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 18, 2007 17:12

I dont think it was bad of you to have the pictures up cause they are a part of you and its something you definitly want to tell anyone who might contact you but its not really safe to put up pictures of kids on the internet so its wise of you to take them off cause you never know how many crazys are on this thing even though its suppost to be a friendly site. If you get to the point where you have been talking to someone for a long while and you plan to meet them I see no problem in you sending a picture to them cause they would probably meet your kids eventually anyways. But having them on the profile probably isnt good.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 16, 2007 14:30

This thing doesn't update regularly enough! I've just noticed that you've actually taken the pictures off of your kids - wise move. Anyway I hope you are all well.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 16, 2007 14:25

Hi there - I just wanted to drop a quick note on here. Although I think that the guys wife was well out of order I also feel sorry for her - imagine having to be married to a man like that!!! I have to agree with her on the posting pictures of kids, I don't think people should post pictures of their kids on this website or any website. The only reason I say that is that I used to work for the authorities and there is a huge amount of paedo's out there that scroll through websites, any websites, just looking for a quick fix from seing a kid in any way that they can. I reckon that the best thing to do is to make people aware that you have kids but not show pictures until you've got to know the person, just to protect your children. Sorry if it feels to you like I'm moaning I just want yours and everyones kids to be safe from the sickos out there


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