Ok, it may not for you, but I thought'd I'd post my story just so any of you who are on the point of giving up hang in there!!!
I'd been on sites like this for maybe 3 or 4 years and got fed up with the constant stream of men wanting just a hook up, or seeming too needy and desperate or just plain weird!!! I'd email, chat back and forth online and even talk on the phone once I felt comfortable, but never once did I ever think of meeting someone because it just never felt right. I didnt want just sex and I honestly never met anyone online who I felt wouldnt want more than just dinner and a fun night out so I just kept plodding on.
That is until a very nice man emailed me, a nice polite email - not smarmy or creepy, not too cock-sure or 'Dayum, I'm hot, you should date me while you still have a chance!' But uh oh, there was just one snag .... he was 20 years my junior! I shyed away just because of that but I kept looking at his profile and I was strangely drawn to him. I emailed to say 'thanks but no thanks' but he didnt give up. He chatted politely and didnt rush me until eventually he won my confidence. After 10 weeks or so I was convinced enough to meet him - something I had NEVER done before but somehow it just felt right. And here we are, still together 1 year later! If its not too much of a cliche, I feel like I've known him my whole life and the age difference doesnt matter at all. So, ladies and gentlemen - hang in there, there IS someone out there for you, you just need perseverence!!! I wish you all luck and lots of love <3 <3 <3